French kissing is a contact sport. Well, maybe sport is the wrong word, but it’s definitely up close and personal and very contact-y. Some men and women believe that French Kissing is only about the tongue. But it’s so much more than that.
Although French kissing is an extremely intimate act between two people, the object of a French Kiss is not to reach for a person’s tonsils or check out their dental work or to thrust in and out of another’s mouth.
So if French Kissing is not a sport and not only about the tongue and not about dental work, what is it – what is the purpose? Why does it hold so much fascination for people – especially those who have not experienced it? Aside from the fact that many times those things we haven’t experienced hold some intrigue and perhaps in the case of French kissing something that has been off limits or unattainable for various reasons, I believe the intrigue lies in the fact that we are getting as close as possible to another person without actually performing a sex act. That may sound pretty obvious, but if this is the case, then stopping and thinking about what you are doing while you are French kissing is pretty important.
Slow down and enjoy the experience. With that in mind, here are some tips to enhance your French kissing encounters.
Number one tip: Fresh breath is required. No question about this, to ensure a positive and enjoyable kissing experience, it is crucial that your breath be fresh and your tongue clean. Prior to the kiss, at the very least, brush, rinse or pop a mint in your mouth. Otherwise, no matter how willing your partner is, he or she will most likely be focused on the breath and not the kiss.
Number two tip: To further enhance your kissing experience, it is very important that you be aware of your partner and in the moment. What does it mean to be “in the moment”? Don’t kiss with a goal in mind, but fully experience the kiss and the sensations. Relax and enjoy!
Number three tip: Be judicious in the use of your tongue. Again, no tonsil hockey and don’t forget the lips. However, the tongue should not be used to lick other parts of a woman's face - our survey respondents were adamant about that - please don't ever do that! Give a hint of tongue, tease your partner by alternately brushing his or her lips with your tongue and softly kissing with just your lips. Move around his or her mouth. Remember – to increase your pleasure, take it slowly. As the passion builds, you can insert your tongue more frequently, but be aware of your partner. If he or she is pulling back, start from square one – go back to the softer, slower kisses and bring the tongue to the party when it’s invited.
Once you are comfortable with the pace and your partner is responding, you can get creative. I’ll write more on that topic in another French kissing article.if u like this and if u have any questions then simply comment me thx.
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