The goal for most people going out on a first date is a second date. These romantic tips for fabulous first dates will have you well on your way to a second date in the blink of an eye.
- Keep things sweet and light. High pressure situations aren't the best breeding ground for a second date and they can ruin the first date completely. Don't push for marriage or sex on the first date. Instead, focus on getting to know each other and having a good time. The other things may come with time. Now really isn't their time.
- Bring out the violins, wining, dining, and romantic accompaniment that is often expected on a romantic date. Even though it's your first date doesn't mean there can't be a romantic undertone. If you're really hoping to make an impression for romance the first step is to be romantic. Flowers, wine, and music are a great display of romance that she's likely to remember for a very long time.
- Have a plan. She really doesn't want to be the one planning your romantic evening. Have one ready to go and don't ask her at every stop along the way what she wants to do tonight. Bring her along and plan for her to enjoy whatever it is you have in store. If you've thought about her, first and foremost, during your planning you should be going in the right direction each step of the way.
- Remember that romance is about what your date finds romantic and not about what you find romantic. Discuss things carefully with your date in order to find out what is and is not romantic to her. You might be surprised by the answers and insights that are provided. Romance and love are rarely, if ever, a one size fits all proposition. Find out what she believes is romantic and deliver all that and more. She'll be delighted you were listening and touched that you cared to make it happen.
- Surprise her with something a little out of the ordinary. It can be a carriage ride, a rented limo, or simply taking a pair of horses out for a ride beneath the stars. It's the little things like this that will make you stand apart on the way to win her heart. It is almost always the little things you do that get the most attention. Just remember that you don't have to spend a small, or not to small fortune, to make a lasting impression for the better.
- Seal it with a kiss. Don't spend all night worrying about will you or won't you. If things went well, end the night with a kiss. Who knows you might just take the place of Prince Charming in her heart by morning. It takes more than one date to fall hopelessly in love but she can be well on her way if you play your first date cards right by following these first rate first date tips.
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