There is nothing more emotionally fulfilling than being in love. However, love life is somewhat like the stock market - full of ups and downs. In fact, more downs than ups. When you are in love, you are constantly discovering new aspects about each other, getting closer by the hour, but after a period of time, everything seems to evaporate. Both of you seem to have crash landed in the world of harsh realities.
While this may be the way the cookies crumble in every relationship, this is not something people want to happen. You wish that you lived in this dream world forever and a day. You want your lover back but do not know how. Here are 3 simple but effective tips to make our lover fall for you again:
• Never underestimate the power of communication. Though it is a fact that many couples avoid communication as they mistake it for 'confrontation'. They shy away from unpleasantness arising out of communicating with each other but what they are doing by stopping effective communication is merely increasing the gap in the relationship. In stead, keep the channels of communication alive - but know what to say when. Label some topics as 'taboo' if you think that they evoke some unpleasant emotions. But never stop communication with your lover.
• Increase the time that you spend with each other. Love is delicate and volatile. You need to take special efforts to keep it alive. Go for a trip to an exclusive venue, where you can spend time and talk without any interruption. It could be a good idea to visit a place unknown to both of you. A pleasant environment can trigger love and romance between two people when everything else fails.
• To spend quality time with each other, focus on the good times you shared when the relationship was new. Remembering those loving moments can re-ignite the passion in your lover. Listen to old and romantic songs all over again. This has great therapeutic value too, in bringing back mental peace, tranquility and love between the two of you.
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