Why a Free Friendship Dating Site is a Much Better Option Than Paid Dating Sites

Free friendship dating sites or friendship website or the "make friends online free" sites are the trend of the day as everybody in the current society wants to expand his or her friends base and no one wants to spend a fortune by hooking up with the paid sites. In this article I have discussed a few advantages of free friendship sites over paid ones. Read on to know more.

Free Of Cost Friendship And Dating

When you sign up with a free friendship site, you can avail all the services for free, make friends online for free, and meet men and ladies online without having to give up a hefty membership charge.

In many cases I have noticed that when you blindly fall for the trap of a paid friendship website by getting lured by the colorful ads, you are fleeced in the name of a membership charge. However in reality, you enjoy only those facilities that the other free members are enjoying. But your profile can be accessed only by paid members who form just a handful of the total number of members.

Untouched Frontier: The Power of Peace

My tradition is Tibetan Buddhism, however, when I think of that, I remember that Buddhism did not begin in Tibet but in India. And the Buddha was not Buddhist, but Hindu.

Further, Hinduism was and still is  a gathering of compartmentalized deity practices brought together in order to live in non-competitive harmony. They in turn were influenced by the Egyptian mystical tradition and we might  arrive at the religions of Atlantis, Lemuria or even the earth as a living and evolving organism. Many affirm that there are so many other civilized cultures beyond the cover of our sky.

Like a spiral that winds inside and outside touching everything I imagine Buddhism energetically touching us here and now as it gracefully flows through Tibet, China, Japan and many other countries touching and inviting myriad beings to higher development.

Gaining A True Friendship- Is It That Difficult?

If you are one of those people who have loads of friends who gather around you all the time and give you their companionship no matter when you ask for it, then I guess you do not need to read this article. For already you have a good idea about how to make friends and how to hold on to them.

Now unfortunately if that is not the case, if you feel too lonely most of the time or simply not satisfied with the relationship that you are having with your friends then you might find something useful here.

At first lets face it, it is never easy to get a good friend. You try through out your life but can end up with no “true” friend. But is this really all that difficult to find a friend who will really care for you and will keep in touch with you without considering any personal gains from the relationship? Apparently it isn’t!

Friends' Influence - The Effect Our Friends' Attitudes Have on Us and How to Avoid Bad Influences

When you start changing be aware of your friends' influence. You may not realise to what extent friends may influence you. When you are with your friends, try to observe what words they use in conversation and what their general attitude towards life is.

I remember when I started changing and became more aware of how people behave, I realised that 99% of my friends were always using negative words and their lives were nowhere to the standard I was reaching. That was a real eye-opener to me. I understood that if I kept hanging out with such people I would have ended up exactly where all of them were - in circumstances that were mediocre, where 97% of the society found themselves in.

If your friends, when asked how they are, say 'not bad' or, even worse, start complaining about their daily disasters - run as fast as you can from them!

15 Things To Never Do With Your Girl

There are just certain things you shouldn't do with your girl if you really want things to last. See if you are already not doing these or if you are already breaking these rules to a perfect relationship.

Share an email
Sure, you've got nothing to hide. Yeah, you trust her and she trusts you. Doesn't matter. Girlfriends misinterpret. It's their job. And when the two of you are sharing an email address, you're just giving her an opportunity to misinterpret every waking hour of the day.

Move in togeter
Ahh, the classic rookie mistake. Now, we're not saying you should NEVER move in with your girlfriend. If you've gone out for years and one of you spends the significant portion of their time at the other one's abode and it makes sense for your commute and the move is a step up for your living situation, then by all means... wait two months and then maybe move in. But we know you -- you're gonna be tempted to want to spend every waking moment with your girl after the 2nd glorious, sex-filled month. And that's a mistake. Rushing in to a cohabitation situation is akin to eating a cake 30 minutes before it's done -- it's going to suck and it'll leave a bad taste in your mouth.

Lullaby of a Lonely Soul

She was any other in all. That princess was not a dreamer and that was an indescribable fact about her. She couldn't forget any of the precious moments she had lived in the last three years but preferred to lock them in her priceless heart and tried her best to adjust in the new world she was brought in.

That innocent soul was amazed at the kind of people and their hypocrisy that surrounded her and this fact made her glistening eyes water and regret every gesture she had made recently, moreover because she missed her life, her nirvana. She was dying to laugh. Also, she was in 'love' and died to go back. But deep down somewhere, that fairy was heartbroken. That person had left deep scars in her lovable heart but still she loved him unconditionally.

Dreams are windows to one's Soul

I dreamt one day, I was walking directionless, unfeeling and abstract. Yes abstract…like I am there and still not there. Life passed by me, days, events, people all, I could register nothing and no one. I was getting weary by the minute, and could not find the strength to go on.  Involuntarily my body slumped down and I sat to rest. There was this cold wind blowing I could feel the wind wisp through my hair and face… It was like awakening from the slumber… I see not far away a figure walking towards me, without any intimation or slightest cue he just sat beside me …he lifted my face towards him. Or was it me involuntarily turning mine to him I cant say, my heart did a jig when I saw those beautiful eyes so deep and dangerous, it held a thousand secrets, and when his lips curved to smile at me, his eyes reflected the mirth. Like a moth drawn to light I was being transported to another world …another lifetime…. Then as suddenly as he had appeared, the same way he just seemed to fade away…I could do nothing…my heart screamed for him to stop…but my lips found no words…and I was again shrouded by the same darkness. I cannot tell how long I sat there, how many hours, or days.

Platonic Relationship:my Views

I am delighted to share my views with all of you on a complex topic like platonic relationship.
Many of you will ask what kind of relationship can be termed as platonic. Simply we can define it as LOVE CLOSE TO DIVINITY .In general language it is relationship in which two person shares great emotional   attachment   without having any lust or desire.

It is always easier to share such kinds of relationship with the person having same sex ,for example it is always easier for two boys or two girls to have relationship like that .But here I am interested to find out whether that kind of relationship can work between a man and a woman.

Truth of How to pick up woman lies in being confident and simple

Most of the men get attracted to women very easily. Mostly guys are in doubt that how to attract girls, most of them got nervous that how to pick up woman? This not so intricate question, as it requires some smart tips, by following them any men can pick up a woman.

The first and prime most important thing to be considered is, being confident, as confidence will make you best and unique, this is proved through various surveys that woman get attracted to those men who are confident, so be confident and pick up a woman.

Be organized and tidy, hygiene is something most men forget to take care of, but if you want to beat question of how to pick up a woman, get yourself groomed and pick a woman your choice.

How to Love the Other in Your Life

We can often hear that"I love you".The three words can be said easily ,But who really know what is called love. Love is a kind of feeling. When you him or her, you just listen to your heart and then you know the feeling.It is like a chocolate, a bird. It's not easy to use the language to describe it . Love is a kind of responsibility. After you choose someone to walk with you,you have the responsibility to protect him or her.Even if you meet a person who is better than him or her,you can not just left him or her,because of the responsibility. Love is sacred . The love lets you find the one who accompanys you to go ahead toward the end of your life.The love combines the two who don't have any connections at first.

How to leave a good impression on phone

There have been countless articles written on how to make a good impression at interviews or even meeting a business client for the first time. However, there has generally been neglect on how to make a good impression before the meeting itself. It seems to me that few articles actually touch on how to make a good impression through the telephone; when we're arranging for the meeting or the interview itself.

Since people cannot see you in person during a telephone conversation, they could get an entirely wrong impression of you through what they hear on the phone and this could ruin your chances of even having the chance to meet the target or person in the first place.

Good eye contact, positive body language and smart dressing are all fine attributes to have at first meetings. However these fine attributes are rendered useless during a phone conversation since the target cannot see you.

To leave a good impression during phone conversations, you would need to get your personality over the phone. Meaning, you would need to speak in a way such that the other person can feel the very emotions that you are feeling right now during the conversation. You would then be able to engage the person more, thus keeping them interested in you and what you have to say.

Use words like "Uh huh", "Right", "Exactly", "Interesting" (the list goes on) to show your affirmation with what the speaker is saying on the other side of the phone. This sends a signal to the speaker that you're paying attention to every detail that he is saying and gives the speaker more confidence to continue. In turn, the speaker will have a good impression of you since you were so interested in them and agreed with them.

You could also use words like "How Surprising!" to indicate your astonishment or words like "Wow that's amazing!" to indicate your admiration for what they've just said.

To further engage the other person on the phone, you could vary the tone of your voice. No one likes to listen to a monotonous speaker going on and on. For example, to indicate your surprise, you could raise the tone of your voice a little or you could also lower the tone of your voice when you are talking about something sad or unfortunate.

Ask questions too! Questions are important tools that allow you to find out more about the other person and also to keep the conversation flowing and eliminating awkward silences. Asking questions at the right time (do not overdo it) makes the other person feel important and they are more likely to have a favourable impression of you!

The key is to let the other party on the phone hear your emotions. Do choose words and phrases that match your personality and emotions. You do not want to sound like one person on the phone and a completely different person in face to face conversations.

Have fun making up your own words, phrases or even tones! Here's hoping that you'll have more exciting and enthralling phone conversations.

Laws of Attraction and Valentines Day

Valentines Day is around the corner and with Christmas in the recent shadow we may feel we have extended our energies to their limits but not where love is concerned. We have an insatiable appetite for love and while we may confuse love with sex or gift giving love is really more than both of those expressions put together.

Any man choosing to use his wife or female partner as a footstool truly does not deserve to share in her life. Actually he is depriving himself of a richer life and also through lack of imagination curtailing his wife from attaining her true potential. Men and women were intended since creation by God to be equals is sharing their life together because in unity they become two halves of one unit thus stronger and versatile.

Inferior treatment of women is a travesty that has been inflicted on our civilisation for centuries and has deprived our world of wealth far greater than the abundant riches of gold silver and oil combined and then some. Our world has known myriad disquieting abuses because this indignity has allowed the primitive mindset license to exploit women and children in ways God never intended.

Society has been fashioned by patriarchal mindsets inducing male dominance which inflicts base rules on fellow men women and children. As a consequence to this women have developed their own brand of superiority in the guise of matriarchal dominance. These often times know greater cruelty than any thing else could ever conceive and we really cannot blame them but let us not condone either patriarchal or matriarchal dictates but abolish them.

Our world was never intended to fashion such realms of dominance as true civilisation may only be attained though men and women working harmoniously uplifting each other with complimentary strengths. Thus both need to be directed in a slow leaky boat towards the deepest recesses of the oceans and good luck to their extinction too.

The Bible is brimful with amazing messages written clearly as well as in parables about mankind but there is one primary theme that encompasses love justice and mercy yet our world experiences drought with these attributes which is quite sad really. However there are numerous leaders of varying degrees of authority who have pledged to uphold this message of love justice and mercy even when the odds were stacked against them so we may trust in hopeful posterity.

Why did they succeed in the past? Because they were doing the right thing and were willing to see it through to completion. Now let each of us do the right thing and continue the journey by commencing in our hearts and hearth then working outwards.

We shall overcome the oozing evils of this world with outstretched hands and love of God for our fellow man women and children by believing in the essential excellence of mankind. Our universe emphasizes growth and as God created our earth from chaos so he shall allow the honest dreams in our hearts and the goodness in our souls to mushroom and blossom. He shall shine the beacon within each of us to guide others to a more substantial benevolent world where a realm of hope and satisfaction awaits our presence.

Please men embrace the ladies in your lives and especially walk with the love of your life together as God intended in loving harmony and respectful unity.

Please Ladies embrace the men in your lives and especially walk with the love of your life together as God intended in loving harmony and respectful unity.

Please those among us who are gay embrace the love of your life and especially walk with the love of your life as God intended in loving harmony and respectful unity.

Please everyone embrace each other as God intended in loving harmony and unity. Let us not allow restrictive primitive mindsets cloud the reality that there is the presence of God in each of us and he expresses himself differently. When we embrace each other as genuine people not as caricatures identified by career, gender, ethnicity or wealth then we shall grow and triumph.

It is only by growing that we realise our essence and true potential especially if we communicate reverently with each other. God bless and happy Valentines Day to you and yours and may the laws of attraction be welcoming.

Laws Of Attraction And To Love One Another After Valentine's Day

It is a request, if not a commandment really, by Jesus whereby he asks of us to love one another because all things are extensions of their own intent. When we seek to attract something or anything really irrespective of intent we may request of the universe to comply with that request if we place our trust in doing the right thing. A suggested right thing is to be true to yourself as then nothing may sway you where you do not wish to be enticed.

Whether one believes in religion or not matters not a whit in the scheme of things as the universe has its own laws by which we have no control over other than to obey them. God in his infinite majesty and wisdom has fashioned cause and effect as automatic co-responders to all that happens and as such cannot be ignored. However through insightful prayer we may allow certain privilege of respect to invite God to bless us appropriately thus we maintain power and dignity of appropriately blessed self-esteem.

There is limited sustenance to be acquired through material gains no matter how extensive and like the couple seeking a child or more the progeny of our thoughts and actions manifests in results. Sometimes we may cringe at what pops up showing reticence and trepidation because our mindsets may have been ensconced in expectations that may not have been realistic. However what ever you store in your heart is the treasure you shall receive thus be mindful of your inner core; e.g. ulterior motives.

In this current wave of economic despair we may feel a desire to reflect on what is truth and how we perceive the facts. No matter the interpretation there is one indisputable realization and that is humans are more important than all the materialism in the world. To live without human love is detrimental to our well being and it is found in the simplicity of a smile even enthusiastic or modest encouragement and most especially a genuine helping hand.

When we give with good cheer and a loving intent our love is carried along with our gift and flows abundantly everywhere we allow it to travel. A box of chocolates or even a bouquet of flowers is complimented when accompanied by a genuine respectful loving intent. It shall behoove those of us who seek regular receipt of good fortune to share favourably tons of fond exchanges especially expressions of love. Decline to believe that love has sexual connotations as nothing could be further from the truth because love has no ulterior motives beyond the actuality of a loving expression depicted in and with truth.

Now what ever about loving others we also have to consider the one looking back at us in the mirror. Reflections are a double entendre as it is implied that as we look so shall we see but only if we are honest and seek the truth of our essence. How wise you are if you feel obliged to reflect regularly as it is pronounced to be quite favourable to meditate so as to draw attractive conclusions and impart exchanges of quiet but relevant aptitude.

Experience teaches those of us who are alert students as to how we may advance appropriately through life and even when we fall we shall once again rise because adversity is also a teacher thus we seek solutions to traverse its reach. Sometimes we may have to surrender to God's request for quiet time and allow his blessings to instruct us as to how to overcome the possession we may be hypnotized by. Clouded illusions delude us into thinking in a certain manner and while we may be offended by their appearance reflection educates us to the truth.

Love is the truth of life and none other has so much power of influence as the wand it waves sometimes erratically but always intentionally because all of us desire to be under its spell. This is where reflection balances or harmonizes our outlook and thus we approach love with dexterity so we shall not be lured inappropriately.

Our universe was created out of love and consequently is as part of our essence as breathing or eating and perhaps is more relevant than our purpose. If you seek to benefit from the laws of attraction then perfect your kindly approach towards others so as to emulate God's love and thus your life too shall create magical manifestations wherein you shall indeed receive excellent favour from the universe. God bless and enjoy your prayerful meditative journey but above all be genuine with your love for others.

Making the Most of Arab Friendships

There is no "one" Arab culture or society: the Arab world stretches from Morocco across Northern Africa to the Persian Gulf, and includes 22 countries and several world religions (with Islam being the most prolific). In general, the term ‘Arab' is used to describe any one who speaks the Arabic language as their mother tongue.

There are several customs that all Arabs share, based on their strong and deeply rooted values of family, friendship and honor. Understanding and respecting these can open the doors wide to long and fruitful friendships. If you're new to Arab culture and would like to understand more of what makes this fascinating culture tick, here are a few pointers to help you to acclimatize and feel more readily accepted by this warm and infinitely diverse people:

Family comes first

Family means everything to Arabs; it is the nucleus of honor, loyalty, and reputation. Males are always the head of the Arab family and the father is strongly respected. Age and wisdom are deeply honored in the Arab culture and advice is often sought from elder family members.

Meeting and greeting

In Arabic culture, close friends or colleagues hug and kiss both cheeks to say hello. When conducting business or meeting Arab acquaintances, shake the hand of all males present first with your right hand and grasp their elbow with the left. Before even attempting to engage in business with an Arab, make sure you leave plenty of time for refreshment. Respect and trust come first and Arabs believe in breaking the ice before getting down to the nitty-gritty.

If you're served a drink, don't forget to accept with the right hand only – the same goes for drinking, offering and passing food or drinks. Right hand rules here. Placing a hand on your heart and bowing slightly is a sign of respect when greeting an Arab friend, acquaintance or colleague. In Arabic culture, men stand when women enter a room.

Getting to know each other

Arabs are warm and gregarious and as such, most don't believe in the Western concept of personal space. It is considered offensive to step or lean away from an Arab friend or business acquaintance. An exception to this rule is women: It is not acceptable to stand overtly close to an Arab woman, stare at her, or touch her. Engaging a woman in conversation unless you have been formally introduced is another no-no.

Arab friends of the same sex often hold hands and hug each other. As Arab society permits and encourages affection between male friends, it's quite common to see Arab men walking hand in hand. A full body embrace, accompanied with hugging, should not be initiated until you are sure that an Arab is a close friend. If your Arab friend initiates it, participate and smile: you can now consider yourself honored or accepted.

Honor and shame

Honor is extremely important in Arab culture and shame is about the worse thing that can happen, so it's important to respect your Arab friends and colleagues. Arabs are straight speaking and decisive people – saying "I don't know" to an Arab is generally considered impolite. Criticism can sometimes be taken as an insult. It's a good idea to be as thoughtful as possible and take care not to insult your Arab friends or business associates, even when joking.

Hygiene

Personal hygiene is extremely important to Arabs for spiritual and practical reasons. Arab Muslims always wash their hands, and forearms before daily prayers or fasting. Meals are often eaten by hand in Arab homes, so it is typical to wash your hands before and after eating, even if you're just visiting.

Time

The Arabic approach to time is way more relaxed than in Western cultures, so don't be offended if your Arabic friend or colleague arrives late to a meeting. It's not a good idea to look at a watch or clock during a meeting. Doing this suggests to your host or guest, that you consider them unworthy of your time.

Disadvantages of Love spells

Every one alive has the presence of love their lives. Love itself is uniquely different concept which describes it self as something that cannot be described while a person is restricted within the logical reasons. A man simply might love a woman because he frequently gets to meet her at the same location of social interaction such as restaurant, school, etc; On the other hand, another man loves a girl when he sees her at the first time known as "Love at First Sight". This kind of love is defined as the purest form of all only if the feeling exercised by the two souls is real. Nevertheless, from the experiences of the love experts, this type of love has three disadvantages when it happens for real.

The first and the fore most disadvantages of this kind is lack of knowing her personality.  If a man accidently falls in love with a woman at the first sight then it is a bitter truth that he does not even know a single quality possessed by her. He may just only love her because she might be beautiful, smart-looking and charming but it is important to realize that everybody has dark sides. There is a big possibility that her dark sides may make him disappointed. The referred dark sides are like crypto mania, lying behavior, drug addicts, etc.

Second disadvantage also hold a vital points of concern as since our child hood days, we heard a very sweet phrase that is called "puppy love". This love is just temporary experience of feelings that is also defined as psychologically natural likeness for an opposite sex, and it influences someone a lot such as his habits when it is in its "active phase". For example, if a man loves a woman, his love probably just lasts a month. After his love finishes, he will never attends the woman again. This "puppy love" is found usually at the age of 15 to 25, but there are possibilities that it can influence everyone who are in love.

The last and the most disadvantages are regarding the maturity of the two minds. The maturity of a person is also measured on a mental scale is from how he cherishes the already present love in his life. A man who loves at the first sight must frequently love different women while he is in other places. If a man likes to change lovers frequently, then he is an immature man even though he is 30 years old. There is a theory that says, "Love is complicated, so it needs maturity to understand it", and it is 100% true.

In the end one thing is to bore in one mind that It is very important to keep aspects of rationality and careful when you think you start to love someone because "all is fair in love and war", and it means that everything can happen. From the writing, it can be concluded that Love at the First Sight is also a challenge for those who are bored with true love.

Love Spell that Works

What majority of us defines love creates an amazing feeling. But in an acceptable scientifically acceptable response it is the most exhilarating of all human emotions is probably nature's beautiful way of keeping the human species alive and reproducing. It basically involves an irresistibly strong cocktail of chemicals in a human body; our brain is controlled by these incredible compounds which finally makes us to fall in love. We believe we're choosing a partner. But we may merely be the happy victims of nature's lovely plan. Modern research through a large number of samples shows that 55% of the love is just body language. 38% is the passion which is displayed through physical actions and the remaining 7% is the magic.

The basic love covers three stages. This is the first stage of love is some times defines as unholy because it is driven by the gender hormones testosterone and estrogen – in both men and women. The second stage is attraction which is the most important part as it covers the part of being love struck. Scientists think that three main neurotransmitters are involved in this stage; adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin. The initial stages of falling for someone activate your stress response, increasing your blood levels of adrenalin and cortical. This has the charming affect that when you unexpectedly bump into your new love, you start to sweat, your heart races and your mouth go dry. Helen Fisher asked newly ‘love struck' couples to have their brains examined and discovered they have high levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine. This chemical stimulates ‘desire and reward' by triggering an intense rush of pleasure. It has the same effect on the brain as taking cocaine! And finally, serotonin. One of love's most important chemicals that may explain why when you're falling in love, your new lover keeps popping into your thoughts.

Attachment is the third step in cycle of being in love as it is the most basic bond that keeps couples together long enough period of time for them to have and raise children. Scientists have proven over the time that there might be two major hormones involved in this concept of feeling attachment; oxytocin and vasopressin. Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women during orgasm. It probably deepens the feelings of attachment and makes couples feel much closer to one another after they have had intercourse. 

The theory goes that the more femininity a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes. Oxytocin also seems to help cement the strong bond between mum and baby and is released during childbirth. It is also responsible for a mum's breast automatically releasing milk at the mere sight or sound of her young baby. Vasopressin is another important hormone in the long-term commitment stage and is released after femininity. Vasopressin (also called anti-diuretic hormone) works with your kidneys to control thirst. Its potential role in long-term relationships was discovered when scientists looked at the prairie vole. Prairie voles indulge in far more sex than is strictly necessary for the purposes of reproduction. They also – like humans - form fairly stable pair-bonds.