I've been through a lot of rough places in my life, but none were so hard as losing my girlfriend of 4 years. I couldn't eat for days, and I was slowly sinking into depression. It was a hard road, but finally I started trying to get her back. I tried everything: flowers, gifts and even begging. But nothing I did could win her affection back. Finally did I start looking into other ways to get her back, but it still took a long time before things started working in my favor.
Losing the love of your life is the hardest thing most people will ever go through. It seemed like forever before things started turning up for me, and a lot of time could've been saved if someone had just told me how to do it.