Losing a boyfriend does not mean that he is lost forever. You can get back your ex, except that you might have to use cunning and act street-smart to get him back before someone else gets him. The first step is to believe in yourself and your power to do anything which your heart earnestly desires. If necessary act crazy like a fox - after all, all is fair in love and who is thinking of war?
Your boyfriend might have ceased to be your lover; he has not ceased to be your 'friend', right? So why not take the 'friendship' route to be beside him? A friend is someone who shares and listens to all that life has to offer. Tell him that despite your affair gone sour, you have no hang ups to stay with him and be his 'friend'. Show no signs of 'love' or any such binding emotions. Just be there with him like a shadow. Soon this physical proximity would pave the way to intimacy and love is just a hop, skip and jump away.
While you share this physical and emotional togetherness, show him that you can be a simple, non-interfering and caring person to be with. This way, you are making yourself precious and valuable. Never for a moment during this phase, show him that your ultimate aim is to get him back. Let him gradually realize our worth and he then decides to get back with you. Play this game with care and control - you are bound to win him back.
If you are well planned in your approach, act street smart with a good presence of mind, and of course use foxy strategies to get your ex back, the whole job can be easy and uncomplicated. Take control of your emotions and pretend to your ex boyfriend that everything is hunky dory. Never treat the breakup as an important issue in life, at least not in front of him.
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