Most breakups are preceded by outbursts of anger, resentment and disappointment. Some breakups however may even turn nastier, the scars of which remain for years. Be that as it may, if one of the partners is sincerely in love with the other and makes genuine efforts to get back the ex, it is possible. All you need is a positive state of mind and a proactive attitude. Set your priorities right and get cracking, rather than sitting and sulking about the love that you lost.
The first step to get your ex back after a nasty breakup is to 'let go' of the relationship for at least a month. Do not make calls, send messages or 'accidentally' bump into him or her on the road or wherever he or she frequents.
This time is critical for both of you to calm down, reorganize your thoughts and generally take control over your mind and the breakup situation. Do not fall all over you ex, just after a breakup; simply because you are desperate to get him or her back.
What happens if you see your ex with someone new? Sorry, there is no place for jealousy here as you need to understand why he or she has started dating someone new. It is simply to get over the mental pain of the breakup with you. Such 'affairs' are extremely short-lived and you need not worry too much over such issues. Remember, your ex is also going through a tough time without you and chances are that you are constantly in his or her mind. When someone tries to forget someone, he or she has to 'remember' first and then forget! It is as simple as that.
The world has not fallen apart because your ex is dating someone else. Wait and watch, your ex would surely turn up sooner than later.
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