As if the break up is not traumatic enough. The pain is even more when you are still in love with your ex and want him or her back anyhow. You no longer have any grudge against your ex and would do anything to get your ex back. Study these simple tips, aimed to help you out in such a situation:
• Never act in a hurry. Give yourself enough time to cool down and think logically whether it really makes sense to get your ex back. This is because the first step you take to get your ex back is extremely critical. You have to be sure of what you are doing and for that you need time to re-think over the issue. Time can also heal and thaw many angry and bitter feelings you have about your ex.
• Try and stop the non-stop mental clutter that is going on in your mind soon after the breakup. Do not spend wasteful hours thinking about the past, because you cannot undo what is done already. The sooner you get out of this mental mess, the better are your chances of getting your ex back. If necessary cry your heart out but do not carry your depression for the rest of your life.
• After you have cleared the majority of mental debris, it is time to meet your ex. Choose a venue which allows privacy where you can talk to each other without any external influence. In this meeting, it is important to remain a listener more than a talker. Listen carefully to what your ex has to say. Mention about your feelings and how after due analysis you feel that getting back would make more sense and make both of you happy. Never for a moment throw blames or abuses for the hurt your ex has caused. This can do irreparable damage to the relationship.
• Remember you do not have to agree to whatever your ex says. Never make any tall promises to 'change' etc. knowing fully well that you cannot keep them. Never plead with your ex to get back. Think of your worth before bending backwards simply to regain lost love.
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