Before snubbing out the possibility of using reverse psychology to get your ex back, you need to remember these are time tested and proven strategies, which are hard hitting. It is also simple and uncomplicated to follow.
What is the fundamental principle of reverse psychology? It is nothing but doing exactly the opposite of what is expected. If you are sending text messages or mail to your ex or are even stalking him or her, stop these activities now. If your ex does not want to see you, so be it.
All your ex has to see is the stronger and more decisive side in your character. Let him or her know that you are pretty cool about the break up and is not as desperate as you were expected to be.
Your disposition towards the breakup would automatically make your ex curious about you. He or she cannot help but wonder what is happening to you, how you are coping with the situation and would be desperate to know more about you. This means that you are constantly occupying his or her mind.
Using reverse psychology in the next step is again doing the opposite of what is expected from you. Your ex is expecting you to be depressed, sad and lonely, perhaps sitting at home and sulking. In reality, you are doing just the opposite - being with friends, laughing and generally having a great time.
All these activities would definitely make your ex believe that you have got over the broken relationship really fast and you are all set to move on. This would make him run back to you before you move away too far. These techniques are surefire ways to get your ex back to where he or she belongs, right in your arms.
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