Cheating shouldn't necessarily be the end of your relationship. Even after cheating; you can actually make up to your partner and get your relationship on track again. The possible barrier to making up to your partner is you. If you are not willing to pay the price, then nothing will come out of the relationship. It will only end up crushing without remedy.
You should know that you are the one that is to be blamed for all that happened. This means that if you want to rebuild this relationship, you are the one to do the bulk of the work. You will need sincerity and a truly repentant heart to be able to succeed in your quest.
You need to first of all be willing to apologize to your ex. Let me remind you that one of the best ways to win a friend's love is to be willing to apologize. The same goes for your relationship. If you are to rebuild it, then you will need to be willing to apologize.
You shouldn't expect your ex to give you any answer in the affirmative yet. It is normal for them to be hurt. If you have been in your partner's shoes, you could have done worse things than that. Even if your partner is not responding positively now, you will need to persist.
You must be ready to sacrifice time for your relationship. Spend more time with your partner. Let them see that you are really remorseful. Let them also know that you are really repentant. You will also need to do away with any form of cheating from now henceforth. Also, let your partner realize that you have done away with waywardness.
It will not be all that easy for your partner to come to terms with you, they may not really give you any encouraging answer now. But you will need to persist in your effort to assure them of your remorse and heart felt repentance.
As time goes on, your partner will come to reason along with you. As time goes on, you will be able to rebuild trust in your relationship.
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