You honestly believed that you had the perfect marriage, when it hit you like a ton of bricks one day that your marriage is heading for a divorce court! This was like a slap in the face for you - what happened to the blissful life you were so used to? Of course this situation will make you panic because you don't know what to do.
The first thing you must do is stop panicking because this is going to achieve nothing at all. Take a deep breath, relax, and try to figure out calmly what could have happened between you and your spouse to cause this situation you are in. Really take the time to think about things - after all, your marriage is heading for a divorce court, and you must do something about it - NOW!
Actually go back as far as when you and your spouse started dating. There is no doubt that you were very attentive to him/her because you were so much in love. Are you still as attentive to your husband/wife or have your attentions all but disappeared over the years? If the latter is the case, then why have you let this happen? You obviously still love your spouse, or you wouldn't still be in the marriage.
However, things are not as hopeless as you think they are. Your marriage is heading for a divorce court, but with the right action from you as quickly as possible, will result in dramatic changes to your situation. Obviously you must start giving your spouse plenty of attention - as much as before.
Again, think back to when you first got married and re-enact the things you used to do then to make your spouse happy. Was it a picnic in the moonlight on the beach? Did your spouse just love it when you cooked his/her favorite meal? Or perhaps it was that surprise weekend away at some romantic location that just did it for your spouse?
Your marriage is heading for a divorce court right now, but, if you give your spouse reason to want to stay with you, then your marriage will definitely get back on track again. Just let your spouse know ALL the time how much you love and need him/her, and it will do wonders for your marriage.
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