Despite what many guys believe, you are the only one that is in control of your life and the world around you. What you believe is the foundation for all of your successes and failures, as well as for how the world around you perceives you and reacts to you. Beliefs are the core of life. If you believe that you will succeed, it will show in every single action you make and word you speak, therefore becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe that you will fail, it will also show in every single word that you speak and thing that you do, giving you no chance for success. The only person in the entire world that can make you successful is you, and you are also the only person that can make yourself feel inferior. Perception really IS reality; the way that you perceive yourself single-handedly shapes your reality. Some of your beliefs are true and some are not, but it is only you that has the power over them. However, the line between true and false is non-existent, what determines this line is what you truly believe.
You Are in the Drivers Seat
The solution to many men's questions concerning dating, seduction, and women in general is not an answer that anyone can provide but that person. The most difficult problems experienced are the problems that cannot be solved with a line or a routine. The answer to these problems lies inside of you, and is projected by your inner beliefs. You always have a choice; you can choose to be happy and positive about life, or you can choose to be angry at the world and the people in it. Do not think for a second that you cannot succeed because you are not good enough. The only person that can make you good enough or not is you! You are your own worst enemy, and you are also your most powerful ally. If you do not defeat yourself, you will never be truly defeated in life. If you allow yourself to succeed and be happy, you always will be!
Results Follow Belief
"The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen."
–Frank Lloyd Wright
The question that has stumped men for ages is three simple letters; "why?" Why does the wrong girl always like me? Why do the ones I want never like me? Why do I always get so stressed out before I approach? Why is it that the harder I try, the worse I do? I want it so badly, why do I never succeed? Why is it impossible to impress her? Why do I always do the wrong things? Every single one of these questions can be answered as well as fixed with a change in your inner belief system. The wrong girl always likes you because you BELIEVE that you are of higher status than her. This is obvious, as she is labeled the "wrong girl." Since you BELIEVE that she is the one with the most to gain in the interaction, you do not place any weight on the outcome. When you are not depending on the outcome, you lose all of the unattractive qualities that not believing in yourself will create. It is no wonder that these girls always have a tremendous crush on you! You are never afraid around them, and you are always a challenge for them. Women want the trophy, and you BELIEVE that you are the higher status male around them. You do not want these girls, because you do not need them. Here is something that you did not know, however. The only reason that you do all of these things, the reason that they fawn over you, is that you BELIEVE they are not better than you. If you desperately wanted and did not believe that you were good enough for these un-desirable girls, they would never want you. Status is always relative; if you believe that no one is of higher value than you, then you will never have problems with being The Challenge and The Trophy that every woman wants.
Value, Status, and Belief
The Opposite holds true, as well. If you were to start believing that you are as every bit as good as the HB 10 that you are gaming, then you would actually become of higher value and status than her. When you truly believe that there are millions of girls just as attractive as her, and that there is only ONE prize like you, you will then become the man she is chasing. Women instinctively are attracted to males of high status. You don't come with a status stamped on your backside! You don't have a bar-code that women can check and tell how desirable that you are! The only way for them to tell is through how you act. You may be wondering, "What is the big deal about all of this?!" How you act is based on WHAT YOU BELIEVE. Beliefs lead to congruent actions, which are the only things that anyone else can see! If you do not believe that you are interesting enough, or funny enough, or her "type," or that you will succeed, then you will not! It is no coincidence that positive people have more success, and it is not by chance that the people who are always complaining always have things to complain about!
Why is it that you are never nervous when talking to your friends? The same reason that you ARE nervous when talking to a HB! If you perceive someone as already wanting to talk to you, then that is what will hold true. If you perceive yourself as having to work to win the approval of someone, then you will always be below this person. Insecurity can never be hidden, and the root of all insecurity is a lack of belief in yourself. Whether you even know it or not, what you hold true in your mind will always show itself. Realize that you are the one who creates the world that you live in. If you think girls will be bitchy and stuck-up, then they will be. If you think people are friendly, then people will be friendly.
Foundation on High Ground
"Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything requires faith and belief in yourself, vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who believe." –Gail Devers
Positive Beliefs are the foundation for all the successes you will achieve and all the happiness that you will enjoy in your life. Your beliefs, being controlled only by you, will always present you with a choice. You can choose to be happy and enjoy life and be a positive influence on others, you can choose to be successful and happy in life, and you can choose to work hard until you reach all of your goals. The only person that can stop you; make you feel bad, or put you in a lower place is YOU! Once you realize that all of your interactions can be positive, that you can take control of your life and turn it around, and that you have the power, you will be an unstoppable force!
You Control You
"I am tomorrow, or some future day, what I establish today. I am today what I established yesterday or some previous day." –James Joyce
Who sets the standards in society? Who determines the group of men that will get the girls? Who determines who will succeed in life? Who determines how happy a person will be? Beliefs are the force that shapes all of these things in today's society and in life! Allow yourself to be FREE from the things that you once worried about! Never worry about impressing someone, because that is the least impressive thing that someone can do. Never worry about coming off as someone likable, because you will be liked by few if you are not secure enough in yourself to know that people will like you. When you realize that you are the one that controls your life, and that the worst thing you can do is worry or doubt yourself, you will experience joy and success beyond measure in all fields, women included.
Women want a man who is in control of his life, who is ambitious, who has goals, and who believes in himself 100%! Women seek The Challenge, the man who knows with every fiber of his being that he can have any women he wants. Women want the man who is secure in his belief that he can accomplish anything, because this man is always the one who will accomplish the most. Understand that you are the prize, or you will never be the prize! Let yourself enjoy life to the fullest, and un-chain yourself from being held back by your limiting beliefs! Be all that you can be! Stop restricting yourself from accomplishing things that you can do with ease! Stop allowing the negative voices in your head control you and change your mindset! They are false and destructive beliefs, and they hamper you in every way of life! Turn things around, allow yourself to be all that you can be, and NEVER let your beliefs stand in the way of that! Know that you are worthy, believe that you can accomplish whatever you choose, and nothing will stand in the way! Knowing that you will succeed will eliminate all fear and doubt! With these roadblocks gone, your path to success is clear. Knowing that you are going to win before you start will result in victories in the end. You now have the POWER, which is within your own mind! Unleash the power, start believing, and excel to all of your potential!
Choose to Succeed
"Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail." Charles F. Kettering
Take the reigns of your life from the slave driver that is doubt! Failure comes only to those who acknowledge its power over their life. Success comes to the valiant men who overcome their obstacles through perseverance and a rock-solid core of beliefs! Positive beliefs are the ground floor upon which everything else is laid. Without a foundation to stand on, no house in the world, no matter how large or extravagant it may be, can support itself. If you have negative thoughts in your mind, they will always rise to the top and present themselves in your actions! If you eliminate all of the trash and negativity from your mind, your empowering beliefs will catapult to you to heights previously unknown! All elements of your life are based on your beliefs! Choose to be successful, choose to be happy, and choose to use the POWER.
You Are in the Drivers Seat
The solution to many men's questions concerning dating, seduction, and women in general is not an answer that anyone can provide but that person. The most difficult problems experienced are the problems that cannot be solved with a line or a routine. The answer to these problems lies inside of you, and is projected by your inner beliefs. You always have a choice; you can choose to be happy and positive about life, or you can choose to be angry at the world and the people in it. Do not think for a second that you cannot succeed because you are not good enough. The only person that can make you good enough or not is you! You are your own worst enemy, and you are also your most powerful ally. If you do not defeat yourself, you will never be truly defeated in life. If you allow yourself to succeed and be happy, you always will be!
Results Follow Belief
"The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief in a thing makes it happen."
–Frank Lloyd Wright
The question that has stumped men for ages is three simple letters; "why?" Why does the wrong girl always like me? Why do the ones I want never like me? Why do I always get so stressed out before I approach? Why is it that the harder I try, the worse I do? I want it so badly, why do I never succeed? Why is it impossible to impress her? Why do I always do the wrong things? Every single one of these questions can be answered as well as fixed with a change in your inner belief system. The wrong girl always likes you because you BELIEVE that you are of higher status than her. This is obvious, as she is labeled the "wrong girl." Since you BELIEVE that she is the one with the most to gain in the interaction, you do not place any weight on the outcome. When you are not depending on the outcome, you lose all of the unattractive qualities that not believing in yourself will create. It is no wonder that these girls always have a tremendous crush on you! You are never afraid around them, and you are always a challenge for them. Women want the trophy, and you BELIEVE that you are the higher status male around them. You do not want these girls, because you do not need them. Here is something that you did not know, however. The only reason that you do all of these things, the reason that they fawn over you, is that you BELIEVE they are not better than you. If you desperately wanted and did not believe that you were good enough for these un-desirable girls, they would never want you. Status is always relative; if you believe that no one is of higher value than you, then you will never have problems with being The Challenge and The Trophy that every woman wants.
Value, Status, and Belief
The Opposite holds true, as well. If you were to start believing that you are as every bit as good as the HB 10 that you are gaming, then you would actually become of higher value and status than her. When you truly believe that there are millions of girls just as attractive as her, and that there is only ONE prize like you, you will then become the man she is chasing. Women instinctively are attracted to males of high status. You don't come with a status stamped on your backside! You don't have a bar-code that women can check and tell how desirable that you are! The only way for them to tell is through how you act. You may be wondering, "What is the big deal about all of this?!" How you act is based on WHAT YOU BELIEVE. Beliefs lead to congruent actions, which are the only things that anyone else can see! If you do not believe that you are interesting enough, or funny enough, or her "type," or that you will succeed, then you will not! It is no coincidence that positive people have more success, and it is not by chance that the people who are always complaining always have things to complain about!
Why is it that you are never nervous when talking to your friends? The same reason that you ARE nervous when talking to a HB! If you perceive someone as already wanting to talk to you, then that is what will hold true. If you perceive yourself as having to work to win the approval of someone, then you will always be below this person. Insecurity can never be hidden, and the root of all insecurity is a lack of belief in yourself. Whether you even know it or not, what you hold true in your mind will always show itself. Realize that you are the one who creates the world that you live in. If you think girls will be bitchy and stuck-up, then they will be. If you think people are friendly, then people will be friendly.
Foundation on High Ground
"Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything requires faith and belief in yourself, vision, hard work, determination, and dedication. Remember all things are possible for those who believe." –Gail Devers
Positive Beliefs are the foundation for all the successes you will achieve and all the happiness that you will enjoy in your life. Your beliefs, being controlled only by you, will always present you with a choice. You can choose to be happy and enjoy life and be a positive influence on others, you can choose to be successful and happy in life, and you can choose to work hard until you reach all of your goals. The only person that can stop you; make you feel bad, or put you in a lower place is YOU! Once you realize that all of your interactions can be positive, that you can take control of your life and turn it around, and that you have the power, you will be an unstoppable force!
You Control You
"I am tomorrow, or some future day, what I establish today. I am today what I established yesterday or some previous day." –James Joyce
Who sets the standards in society? Who determines the group of men that will get the girls? Who determines who will succeed in life? Who determines how happy a person will be? Beliefs are the force that shapes all of these things in today's society and in life! Allow yourself to be FREE from the things that you once worried about! Never worry about impressing someone, because that is the least impressive thing that someone can do. Never worry about coming off as someone likable, because you will be liked by few if you are not secure enough in yourself to know that people will like you. When you realize that you are the one that controls your life, and that the worst thing you can do is worry or doubt yourself, you will experience joy and success beyond measure in all fields, women included.
Women want a man who is in control of his life, who is ambitious, who has goals, and who believes in himself 100%! Women seek The Challenge, the man who knows with every fiber of his being that he can have any women he wants. Women want the man who is secure in his belief that he can accomplish anything, because this man is always the one who will accomplish the most. Understand that you are the prize, or you will never be the prize! Let yourself enjoy life to the fullest, and un-chain yourself from being held back by your limiting beliefs! Be all that you can be! Stop restricting yourself from accomplishing things that you can do with ease! Stop allowing the negative voices in your head control you and change your mindset! They are false and destructive beliefs, and they hamper you in every way of life! Turn things around, allow yourself to be all that you can be, and NEVER let your beliefs stand in the way of that! Know that you are worthy, believe that you can accomplish whatever you choose, and nothing will stand in the way! Knowing that you will succeed will eliminate all fear and doubt! With these roadblocks gone, your path to success is clear. Knowing that you are going to win before you start will result in victories in the end. You now have the POWER, which is within your own mind! Unleash the power, start believing, and excel to all of your potential!
Choose to Succeed
"Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail." Charles F. Kettering
Take the reigns of your life from the slave driver that is doubt! Failure comes only to those who acknowledge its power over their life. Success comes to the valiant men who overcome their obstacles through perseverance and a rock-solid core of beliefs! Positive beliefs are the ground floor upon which everything else is laid. Without a foundation to stand on, no house in the world, no matter how large or extravagant it may be, can support itself. If you have negative thoughts in your mind, they will always rise to the top and present themselves in your actions! If you eliminate all of the trash and negativity from your mind, your empowering beliefs will catapult to you to heights previously unknown! All elements of your life are based on your beliefs! Choose to be successful, choose to be happy, and choose to use the POWER.
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