This piece is for the guys who will get discouraged easily, and will serve as motivation for them to get back out there and make things happen, even when they've had some rough patches. Comments and suggestions are always appreciated!
COPS Action: Determination
There are many ways that a man can get a girl. There are also things that are guaranteed to not get anyone a girl. Staying down after failure, complaining about it, making excuses, and giving up will get no one anything. Certain guys always complain that they have bad luck, that they just can't get women, that women don't like them, that they can't get over their old girlfriend, that they've been wronged so much in the past, that they just can't win, and the list goes on and on and on. What is the one thing that these guys all share in common? It's not that they have any problem with themselves that prevents them from succeeding, besides their horrible attitude and mindset, it's that they all sit around and make excuses, cry about it, and quit instead of going out and making it happen.
Resiliency is Crucial
Guess what, life is tough! That's just the way it is. We're no longer in the fourth grade, and everyone doesn't get a trophy anymore. If you want a girl, you have to go out and get one. If you get knocked down in the process, dust yourself off, learn from it, and get back on the horse. Seduction is not about who is the smoothest, or who has the best lines, or even who is the best at pick-up. The man who gets girls is the man who does not let anything hold him back and keeps going, no matter what. It's the man who gets knocked down seven times, and gets up eight times. There is no way around getting hurt! To succeed in seduction, you will have to take some risks. As the saying goes, though, "The greatest risk of all is not taking any."
The Truth (Shall Set You Free)
The greatest and most powerful men in the entire world are the ones who failed many, many times and risked it all to succeed. In the process of inventing the light bulb, Thomas Edison failed over a thousand times. When asked about failing a thousand times, he said, "I didn't fail a thousand times inventing the light bulb. I found a thousand ways on how to NOT make a light bulb." Think about that for a minute; if Edison had given up and convinced himself that he could not successfully invent a light bulb, we would all be in the Stone Age. Someone would have invented light sooner or later, but if everyone were to quit after a setback, then society would not exist. A few of you may have heard of a basketball player named Michael Jordan. THAT Michael Jordan is the same Michael Jordan that was cut from his High School basketball team. THAT Michael Jordan is the same one who was told by the basketball coach to try another sport because basketball wasn't the one for him. Unaffected by this, he did not complain that it was not fair, he did not cry to others about not making the team, he went to work on making the team. That summer he worked, and worked, and worked his ass off. The next time he tried out, he made the team. The rest is history. If he had given up, the world would never know the greatest basketball player of all-time. Instead he took his failure as motivation to be the best that he can be, and used it to fuel his success. People in this world overcome every single day. Life throws obstacles at everyone, even the world's greatest ladies man. He doesn't get a free pass because he is the world's best player, he faces the same problems with girls that every single man in the world does. What makes him amazing at getting girls is that when he was faced with challenges, he chose to overcome them and keep moving forward.
Food for Thought
"Being defeated is only a temporary condition; giving up is what makes it permanent."
- Marilyn vos Savant
"Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better."
- Samuel Beckett
"Don't let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was."
- Richard L. Evans
"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!" –Rocky Balboa
The above quotes are what you should keep in mind the next time that you think you can't win, or that you should just give up. I am no stranger to adversity myself. Just because I am a part of TIC does not mean that I have always been this way. The REASON that I am this way is because I got beaten so badly by life that I decided that it was time to make a change. And when I made that change, it started off hard. I failed at first, I failed again, and I failed for a very long time. I could have succeeded my first time when I tried to learn pick-up, because some people do. But that wasn't what happened to me. Some of you may succeed very early, but for others, it will seem like you cannot catch a break, and that you cannot win. Take it from experience, it's NOT just you! Sometimes, life tests you. Life doesn't give the greatest rewards to just anyone, they only come to those who will ride out the storm and always give it their best. Some of you have been trying for a lifetime with girls before you found this book. This is your key to success, but only if you let it be. Read everything in here, take it to heart, and apply it. Success will come! If it doesn't come the first night you try things, you're not alone, because it is one of those things in life that takes time. Instead of getting frustrated or down when you have problems, analyze your situation, learn from your mistakes, and TRY AGAIN! Whenever you break-up with a girl, or have things not go your way with a girl, don't be one of the guys who sit around and talk about how close they were, or how they should have had a girl, or how they were cheated. Do yourself a favor, and become one of the guys with three girls on each of his arms who weathered the rough times and came through them as a much better person, with experience, knowledge, toughness, and perspective gained as a result.
No "Quit" in Laid
The only thing that will ever stop you is yourself. You are the only one that can make yourself fail, and that is by giving up. Making excuses is a way to rationalize someone's reason for quitting. Do not be someone that makes excuses for why they do not have a girl, for why they have failed, or for why they are no longer trying. Excusers will only get grief, frustration, and misery for their excuses. You say that you're no good with women? Become good. There IS no excuse for not improving yourself and learning why you are failing. However, the use of the term failing is not entirely appropriate. The only time you ever truly fail is when you stop trying. "Failures" are not failures at all; they are actually valuable lessons that you will have to learn in order to succeed. Each time that you "fail," it brings you one step closer to success. Think about that the next time you want to stop trying. When you feel that you can't win, remember that each time you try, it will bring you that much closer to success! A determined person will always win in the end. People who quit sometimes quit in order to avoid continued failure. What they fail, ironically enough, to see is that each day of their life they are failing. They are failing because they gave up! You will never realize your true potential at anything if you do not stick it out. You will never know what you could have been, or what you could have accomplished if you quit. To quit is to waste successes and joys that you should have had.
Turn Frustration into Results
"If ifs and buts were candy and nuts, we'd all have a merry Christmas." –Don Meredith
Complaining about your failures is only one big waste. The countless hours spent by millions of men across the world complaining about their situation with women could be much better spent. For instance, instead of complaining and quitting, they could buy TNB and practice! I know one thing for certain, if every man who says he cannot win with girls would spend every minute that he spends complaining practicing in the field and gaining experience, he would have more women than he knows what to do with. But instead of taking action, he would rather complain and say that life is not fair, because that is easier. The easy way will never benefit anyone! The things in life that are worth having will always require working for. Do not be the man who reaches for the small fruit on the bottom of the tree, because it is immediate gain and convenient, and does not include risk. Instead, you should be the brave man who climbs to the top of the tree and takes the best fruit, which lies on the highest branch. It will take this man longer to reach the top, and it will be much harder, but when he gets there, the reward will top anything that the lazy man could ever dream of.
Path of Knowledge
The man who is truly wise and strong is not a man who has had an "easy" way through life. The wisest men are the ones who have came through the storms of life and persevered through it all. Adversity is not a bad thing at all, for overcoming the challenges of life will not only get you that of which you were striving to attain, but also bonus gifts of knowledge, experience, inspiration, and growth of character. These things are precious gifts in life that can only be had by the men who come through tough times, not those that quit, or those that never strive for excellence. Those men will die a thousand deaths, but the true man will only die one.
The next time that you are upset that you did not get with that hot girl at Starbucks, hold your head up high and remember that if you decide to let it get you down and keep you out of the game, you will never win. Remember that the next day, the next week, the next month, and the next years to come that you encounter countless women that are much better than her, and that you will be able to get with those women because of the experience that you gained with the woman that you "failed" with. When you succeed, you will think badly about all of your "failures," instead The Opposite will occur. You will want to thank them, because if it wasn't for the things you learned in defeat, you would have never learned what is necessary for success, and you would not be nearly as strong of a person.
Defeat is Always Optional
Life is not a sprint, life is a marathon. You will never win them all, and even though you should always expect to succeed and do everything you can in order to do so, you will have setbacks. You will experience rough patches in everything you do in life, and seduction is no different. A true test of a man's inner strength is not how many girls he can get; it is how he deals with the times that he doesn't get them. A true alpha knows that life has its ups and downs, and does not let this affect him. Refuse to stay down and you will never really be down for long. Defeat will always be optional, and only you hold the decision
COPS Action: Determination
There are many ways that a man can get a girl. There are also things that are guaranteed to not get anyone a girl. Staying down after failure, complaining about it, making excuses, and giving up will get no one anything. Certain guys always complain that they have bad luck, that they just can't get women, that women don't like them, that they can't get over their old girlfriend, that they've been wronged so much in the past, that they just can't win, and the list goes on and on and on. What is the one thing that these guys all share in common? It's not that they have any problem with themselves that prevents them from succeeding, besides their horrible attitude and mindset, it's that they all sit around and make excuses, cry about it, and quit instead of going out and making it happen.
Resiliency is Crucial
Guess what, life is tough! That's just the way it is. We're no longer in the fourth grade, and everyone doesn't get a trophy anymore. If you want a girl, you have to go out and get one. If you get knocked down in the process, dust yourself off, learn from it, and get back on the horse. Seduction is not about who is the smoothest, or who has the best lines, or even who is the best at pick-up. The man who gets girls is the man who does not let anything hold him back and keeps going, no matter what. It's the man who gets knocked down seven times, and gets up eight times. There is no way around getting hurt! To succeed in seduction, you will have to take some risks. As the saying goes, though, "The greatest risk of all is not taking any."
The Truth (Shall Set You Free)
The greatest and most powerful men in the entire world are the ones who failed many, many times and risked it all to succeed. In the process of inventing the light bulb, Thomas Edison failed over a thousand times. When asked about failing a thousand times, he said, "I didn't fail a thousand times inventing the light bulb. I found a thousand ways on how to NOT make a light bulb." Think about that for a minute; if Edison had given up and convinced himself that he could not successfully invent a light bulb, we would all be in the Stone Age. Someone would have invented light sooner or later, but if everyone were to quit after a setback, then society would not exist. A few of you may have heard of a basketball player named Michael Jordan. THAT Michael Jordan is the same Michael Jordan that was cut from his High School basketball team. THAT Michael Jordan is the same one who was told by the basketball coach to try another sport because basketball wasn't the one for him. Unaffected by this, he did not complain that it was not fair, he did not cry to others about not making the team, he went to work on making the team. That summer he worked, and worked, and worked his ass off. The next time he tried out, he made the team. The rest is history. If he had given up, the world would never know the greatest basketball player of all-time. Instead he took his failure as motivation to be the best that he can be, and used it to fuel his success. People in this world overcome every single day. Life throws obstacles at everyone, even the world's greatest ladies man. He doesn't get a free pass because he is the world's best player, he faces the same problems with girls that every single man in the world does. What makes him amazing at getting girls is that when he was faced with challenges, he chose to overcome them and keep moving forward.
Food for Thought
"Being defeated is only a temporary condition; giving up is what makes it permanent."
- Marilyn vos Savant
"Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better."
- Samuel Beckett
"Don't let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was."
- Richard L. Evans
"Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!" –Rocky Balboa
The above quotes are what you should keep in mind the next time that you think you can't win, or that you should just give up. I am no stranger to adversity myself. Just because I am a part of TIC does not mean that I have always been this way. The REASON that I am this way is because I got beaten so badly by life that I decided that it was time to make a change. And when I made that change, it started off hard. I failed at first, I failed again, and I failed for a very long time. I could have succeeded my first time when I tried to learn pick-up, because some people do. But that wasn't what happened to me. Some of you may succeed very early, but for others, it will seem like you cannot catch a break, and that you cannot win. Take it from experience, it's NOT just you! Sometimes, life tests you. Life doesn't give the greatest rewards to just anyone, they only come to those who will ride out the storm and always give it their best. Some of you have been trying for a lifetime with girls before you found this book. This is your key to success, but only if you let it be. Read everything in here, take it to heart, and apply it. Success will come! If it doesn't come the first night you try things, you're not alone, because it is one of those things in life that takes time. Instead of getting frustrated or down when you have problems, analyze your situation, learn from your mistakes, and TRY AGAIN! Whenever you break-up with a girl, or have things not go your way with a girl, don't be one of the guys who sit around and talk about how close they were, or how they should have had a girl, or how they were cheated. Do yourself a favor, and become one of the guys with three girls on each of his arms who weathered the rough times and came through them as a much better person, with experience, knowledge, toughness, and perspective gained as a result.
No "Quit" in Laid
The only thing that will ever stop you is yourself. You are the only one that can make yourself fail, and that is by giving up. Making excuses is a way to rationalize someone's reason for quitting. Do not be someone that makes excuses for why they do not have a girl, for why they have failed, or for why they are no longer trying. Excusers will only get grief, frustration, and misery for their excuses. You say that you're no good with women? Become good. There IS no excuse for not improving yourself and learning why you are failing. However, the use of the term failing is not entirely appropriate. The only time you ever truly fail is when you stop trying. "Failures" are not failures at all; they are actually valuable lessons that you will have to learn in order to succeed. Each time that you "fail," it brings you one step closer to success. Think about that the next time you want to stop trying. When you feel that you can't win, remember that each time you try, it will bring you that much closer to success! A determined person will always win in the end. People who quit sometimes quit in order to avoid continued failure. What they fail, ironically enough, to see is that each day of their life they are failing. They are failing because they gave up! You will never realize your true potential at anything if you do not stick it out. You will never know what you could have been, or what you could have accomplished if you quit. To quit is to waste successes and joys that you should have had.
Turn Frustration into Results
"If ifs and buts were candy and nuts, we'd all have a merry Christmas." –Don Meredith
Complaining about your failures is only one big waste. The countless hours spent by millions of men across the world complaining about their situation with women could be much better spent. For instance, instead of complaining and quitting, they could buy TNB and practice! I know one thing for certain, if every man who says he cannot win with girls would spend every minute that he spends complaining practicing in the field and gaining experience, he would have more women than he knows what to do with. But instead of taking action, he would rather complain and say that life is not fair, because that is easier. The easy way will never benefit anyone! The things in life that are worth having will always require working for. Do not be the man who reaches for the small fruit on the bottom of the tree, because it is immediate gain and convenient, and does not include risk. Instead, you should be the brave man who climbs to the top of the tree and takes the best fruit, which lies on the highest branch. It will take this man longer to reach the top, and it will be much harder, but when he gets there, the reward will top anything that the lazy man could ever dream of.
Path of Knowledge
The man who is truly wise and strong is not a man who has had an "easy" way through life. The wisest men are the ones who have came through the storms of life and persevered through it all. Adversity is not a bad thing at all, for overcoming the challenges of life will not only get you that of which you were striving to attain, but also bonus gifts of knowledge, experience, inspiration, and growth of character. These things are precious gifts in life that can only be had by the men who come through tough times, not those that quit, or those that never strive for excellence. Those men will die a thousand deaths, but the true man will only die one.
The next time that you are upset that you did not get with that hot girl at Starbucks, hold your head up high and remember that if you decide to let it get you down and keep you out of the game, you will never win. Remember that the next day, the next week, the next month, and the next years to come that you encounter countless women that are much better than her, and that you will be able to get with those women because of the experience that you gained with the woman that you "failed" with. When you succeed, you will think badly about all of your "failures," instead The Opposite will occur. You will want to thank them, because if it wasn't for the things you learned in defeat, you would have never learned what is necessary for success, and you would not be nearly as strong of a person.
Defeat is Always Optional
Life is not a sprint, life is a marathon. You will never win them all, and even though you should always expect to succeed and do everything you can in order to do so, you will have setbacks. You will experience rough patches in everything you do in life, and seduction is no different. A true test of a man's inner strength is not how many girls he can get; it is how he deals with the times that he doesn't get them. A true alpha knows that life has its ups and downs, and does not let this affect him. Refuse to stay down and you will never really be down for long. Defeat will always be optional, and only you hold the decision
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