It can be extremely difficult to recognize the signs of an emotional affair, and in some cases, really difficult to prove as well. The thing is, it can cause just as much trouble in a relationship as a full-blown physical affair, even sometimes resulting in the relationship ending. Knowing what to look for though will enable you to confirm whether or not your partner is involved in such an affair.
On of the signs of an emotional affair is when your partner becomes withdrawn and is reluctant to spend time with you. This is especially so if you and your partner were always very close. If you have noticed that your partner recently started showing a reluctance to be with you, this could very well mean that he/she is involved in an emotional affair.
If you suspect that your partner is involved in an emotional affair, irritability with you is another of the signs of an emotional affair.
This can be very hurtful, because, you partner was up to now really loving and attentive towards you. However, if your partner is having an emotional affair, this will change dramatically. You will find that whatever you do or say seems to irritate your partner considerably. Things that you say and do were okay before, but will now annoy your partner terribly.
Before in your relationship, everything between you and your partner was out in the open. However, if your partner suddenly demands more privacy in his/her life, it might mean that he/she has something to hide from you. Do you still have access to your partner's email or have you found that the password has been changed? Have you noticed that credit card bills are being thrown away instead of being filed in your personal financial file? These might be signs of an emotional affair.
One of the classic signs of an emotional affair is when it becomes a habit of your partner to "work late." If this did not happen before, then it should ring warning bells. Your partner might even start bringing a lot of computer work home. This could be one of the signs of an emotional affair though - be alert because it is a known fact that many people have online affairs and very often actually fall in love after some time.
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