Are you looking for some sort of help to get over the fact that your marriage is over? My friend, you're at the right place! Once you have read this article, the advice you will receive will make you realise that your marriage might be over, but your life definitely is NOT!
Yes, it is absolutely devastating when you know that your marriage is going down the tubes - it hits you like a ton of bricks! It is especially heartbreaking when it involves the person that you intended spending the rest of your life with.
The first thing you need to do is to accept that your marriage is almost at an end, and that you will probably not be with your spouse for much longer. However, please understand that, your marriage might be over, but your life is not.
There are plenty of very exciting years ahead of you, so, face them head on - it's another opportunity for you to have a really great time!
Think about this for a minute. Are you and your spouse at all happy with each other right now? I bet the answer is no - right? Well, do you and your spouse really want to be unhappy for the rest of your lives? Again, I bet your answer is no.
So, isn't it a much better idea to part as friends, wish each other well, and become happy again, before you wreck each other completely? I'm right, aren't I?
No matter how much you and your spouse wanted the marriage to be successful, it's just not working for either of you. This is when you need to show the respect that you definitely have for each other, and allow each other an opportunity to move away from this marriage, and enjoy life again.
You had really great times together, so make sure that your memories of your marriage stay happy ones, before resentment sets in and shoves all those happy memories aside.
If you and your spouse part as friends, when you see each other, you can still at least talk about those happy times you had together and how lucky you were to be able to do that.
As I mentioned before, your marriage might be over, but your life definitely isn't, so get out there and enjoy your next adventure in life as much as possible! Makes sense, doesn't it.
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