Jacob and Beth deeply cares about their marriage but, Beth feels as though Jacob is slowly slipping away. This is a heart wrenching feeling for her because her husband does not share in the same commitment for making the necessary changes to survive an affair.
She feels as though her husband may be going through depression or maybe he is confused even showing disinterest in their relationship. Whatever the case may be, he has not shown any interest in saving the marriage.
However, Beth is not giving up so easily. She is willing to put forth an effort to make it work by herself.
Are you willing to make it work? Do you want to save your marriage?
In this article you will find three tips to help you survive an affair all by yourself.
1. How Committed Are You?
If your husband or wife is or is not putting forth any effort to save your marriage, you should put for your best effort and commitment to saving your relationship.
Maybe you have been giving your marriage, all you got, but you have to dig a little deeper and give more. If you really want to save your marriage you will have to rely on your inner strength.
Regardless of the situation no one can tell you what or how much your marriage is worth and what length you will have to go to save it. If your feelings for saving your relationship are truly strong, having a deep commitment for doing so will leave you feeling empowered.
2. Treat Your Spouse Like Your Best Friend
As relationships go on a lot of couples realize they have gone from being supportive to being hostile. Think about your best friend. Has there been a time in his or her life when they have been down and out? You were there for them to have a shoulder to lean and cry on, right.
During a marriage a spouse can easily forget that their husband or wife need a best friend and that friend is you. Look deep within your marriage to see if you or your spouse has forgotten how to be a friend.
No one can control your emotions or your actions but, you will have to be the one who leads by example. It is your actions, such as how you treat and talk to your spouse that will determine if he or she are willing to change. Being friendly, puts them in a safe and comfortable environment, and it helps to build up trust and helps them believe the marriage can be saved.
3. Working On Yourself
You are probably wondering, how can I give my all in all to this marriage and still have time for myself? Being strong is a part of giving in your marriage. You have to take care of yourself as much as your marriage, because a healthy marriage has to have healthy partners.
A lot of couples in relationships become hostile, because one or the other feels resentment, feeling as though they have given their all in all in the marriage and there is nothing else for them to give but themselves.
It is very important to have time for yourself. So you can deal with your own struggles and emotions. You should also pay close attention to your own desires.
If you are willing to save your marriage, follow those three tips. You and your spouse can survive an affair with a lot of effort from you.
She feels as though her husband may be going through depression or maybe he is confused even showing disinterest in their relationship. Whatever the case may be, he has not shown any interest in saving the marriage.
However, Beth is not giving up so easily. She is willing to put forth an effort to make it work by herself.
Are you willing to make it work? Do you want to save your marriage?
In this article you will find three tips to help you survive an affair all by yourself.
1. How Committed Are You?
If your husband or wife is or is not putting forth any effort to save your marriage, you should put for your best effort and commitment to saving your relationship.
Maybe you have been giving your marriage, all you got, but you have to dig a little deeper and give more. If you really want to save your marriage you will have to rely on your inner strength.
Regardless of the situation no one can tell you what or how much your marriage is worth and what length you will have to go to save it. If your feelings for saving your relationship are truly strong, having a deep commitment for doing so will leave you feeling empowered.
2. Treat Your Spouse Like Your Best Friend
As relationships go on a lot of couples realize they have gone from being supportive to being hostile. Think about your best friend. Has there been a time in his or her life when they have been down and out? You were there for them to have a shoulder to lean and cry on, right.
During a marriage a spouse can easily forget that their husband or wife need a best friend and that friend is you. Look deep within your marriage to see if you or your spouse has forgotten how to be a friend.
No one can control your emotions or your actions but, you will have to be the one who leads by example. It is your actions, such as how you treat and talk to your spouse that will determine if he or she are willing to change. Being friendly, puts them in a safe and comfortable environment, and it helps to build up trust and helps them believe the marriage can be saved.
3. Working On Yourself
You are probably wondering, how can I give my all in all to this marriage and still have time for myself? Being strong is a part of giving in your marriage. You have to take care of yourself as much as your marriage, because a healthy marriage has to have healthy partners.
A lot of couples in relationships become hostile, because one or the other feels resentment, feeling as though they have given their all in all in the marriage and there is nothing else for them to give but themselves.
It is very important to have time for yourself. So you can deal with your own struggles and emotions. You should also pay close attention to your own desires.
If you are willing to save your marriage, follow those three tips. You and your spouse can survive an affair with a lot of effort from you.
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